by Jerry J. Brown
Preface: Among all of life’s experiences, the death of someone dear to us penetrates the very core of all that we feel, think and do. From death, the funeral embodies the equation for our recovery process as it:
Provides order and direction in the shock waves of our loss. . .
Transmits tranquility in the turbulence of our pain and despair. . .
Summons strength, acceptance and resolve from the depths of our grief. . .
Brings people together to share the intimacies of our sorrow. . .
Manifests our beliefs through the many ceremonies of choice. . .
Guides us in the mosaic of alternatives which fulfill our most private and personal needs. . .
And above all, the funeral bears eloquent testimony to the life and legacy of one whom was known, loved, honored and remembered.
